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What are some parenting styles?

The moment a child comes into the family is also the moment when parents begin to form their own parenting style. Despite the fact that there are no identical families in nature, there are only 4 styles of parenting. Typically, parents adhere to any of them unconsciously, not even aware that there is a classification, defining characteristics and behaviors. The style of behavior with children may change from year to year, for example, parents often decide to enroll in parenting classes or read several books. Still, most often family parenting styles are shaped by parents’ own understanding of how children should be raised, what is good and what is bad. 

  

In fact, the character, behavior and sometimes the fate of their child depends on what style of parenting parents adhere to. The atmosphere in which children grow up, as well as parental behavior and communication style, has a great influence on the formation of their personality. 

  

What affects the style of family upbringing? 

  

  •     achievement in junior, middle, and high school 
  •      sexual activity during adulthood and beyond 
  •     likelihood of being in “bad company” and risk of involvement in crime; 
  •     propensity or lack thereof for violent, immoral behavior tendency or lack of it
           tendency to abuse alcohol, drugs 
  •     self-esteem, understanding of one’s own desires and preferences. 

  

Parenting styles: distinctive features 

  

Brain Apps will explain each parenting style in detail so that you can evaluate and analyze them, compare them, and pick the one you prefer. If you already have children, you will be able to understand your parenting style, notice your own mistakes, shortcomings, and most importantly, correct them. So you’ll be able to provide a child with a happy childhood and at the same time to bring up a developed, decent, versatile personality. 

  

Authoritarian style of parenting 

  

Parents who adhere to the authoritarian type of parenting, in the first place are not the interests of the child, but its successful, prosperous future. Based on their life experience, mom and dad independently decide what the child should wear, how to speak, what to do, what to do. At the same time, the child’s own wishes are perceived as unimportant, unimportant. Such parents have a certain goal in mind, for example: a child who gets only straight A’s, or a child who goes to medical school and learns to be a doctor. By all means, in their opinion, the child should achieve this goal, and it does not matter that he or she, for example, does not want to become a doctor at all. 

  

Strictness and mushra turning education in the family in a constant repression of the child, coercion, and even violence. Nothing should distract from the process of achieving great goals, so every step, word, action of the child is controlled. 

  

What are the consequences of authoritarian parenting of a child in the family? 

  

First of all, the child’s personal space suffers. His will, desires, personality are suppressed. The child grows up in an authoritarian atmosphere, where he does not have the right to decide even small things, such as what hairstyle his hair will be gathered into, or what road to take home from school. 

  

In an authoritarian parenting style, young children obey their parents almost unquestioningly because they are guided by fear. In adolescence, problems often arise: the authority of the parent is questioned, scandals are frequent, the teenager seeks to act in defiance of the adults, just to defend their own opinion. Depending on their own character, the child grows into a person who: 

  

  

  1. has a weak position in life, does not understand what he wants, and is not able to make decisions. People who grew up in an authoritarian family atmosphere are often said to have no opinion of their own, no ability to take responsibility for their actions and actions. Out of habit they tend to please and obey others, trying their best to meet the expectations of others.
  2. Adopts the parents’ behavior and elevates it to the absolute. Authoritarian style of upbringing in the family causes a desire to resist and resist, due to which an aggressive, conflictual, rude personality is formed. Such people prefer to solve issues by force, do not respect others, and are distinguished by their cynical and even despotic behavior. In addition, they often feel resentment and, at times, hatred toward their parents.

    How to smooth out an authoritative style? 

  

If you notice a tendency to authoritarian style of parenting in the family, but do not know how to correct it, here are some tips: 

  

  •     Learn to reckon with the child’s wishes, try to understand his feelings and motivations; 
  •     Less often give orders and coercion, and more often ask and offer; 
  •     Explain your actions, tell why the punishment followed, why you want the child to fulfill the request and do as you wish; 
  •     Let the child choose his or her own friends, clothing, music, based on his or her own preferences and tastes; 
  •     Try to accept the fact that the child may have flaws, focus your attention on the strengths. 

  

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